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Again horrible traffic at day 2 - fasting month. I can't whining about this. I need to feel bless don't need to be a tuna or sardine in the bus or train to work. Everything at my free time, I can opt not to drive out but remain in office until traffic get better. But my choice is to drive out and beat the traffic jam like others. Reached home with teribble impatience mood of mine..... :( Not appetite to eat. Don't even have mood to bake my frozen garlic bread. Photo above is my dinner after 15 1/2 hours starving.:) * bowl of strawberries * yakult * dates * snickers bar Luxury dinner... hahaha....I still consider myself a bless humble woman.:) Good night my lovely world!!!!

Managing up! It sounds like we need to be a sucker? Manipulating your Boss? Nay!!!! That is not what it mean..... I survived few difficult bosses and now still surviving of their mental tortured! ahahaha ... just kidding!!! not that bad. For me managing Bosses or managing up , is very challenging task. Too kind to good is too boring for me to work with them. hahahaha... yeah! another psycho statement from me. To me Managing up is more win win situation and benefit to both parties. Most important tips to managing up : 1. Understand you Boss's preferences 2. Be honest and trustworthy (don't be a CNN) 3. Understand boss thoughts and agenda (there is always a reason behind his instruction. If don't know their objective...ASK!) 4. Loyal and committed 5.always come out with solutions instead of create problems 6.Don't give your boss surprises(not funny, OK!!!) 7.Find out your boss weaknesses 8. Know your boss dislike (eg. he hate late comers or hate disorganiz

This morning woke up early. I am still in the mood lazy to cook or even eat anything. I lost my appetite. Open up my food stock cupboard, grab one can of nescafe (yeah! to the extend I am lazy to even boil water for hot drink) and then heading to my fridge for my iranian dates I bought from mercato last Saturday. Yup! thats it.... with hope this will last until another 15 1/2 hours. Friends wrote a message and said ber iftihar??? Shamed on me!!!! Ah! my religious knowledge is little. I don't know what she meant. I was scratching my head. I will google that word later for meaning.

My 1st Day Fasting , I break my fast with Dates,Apricot, Corn and Yakult. I thought of eating Maggi Curry with mushroom but suddenly feel lazy to cook. I am lazy to stop by the near by restaurant for more decent meal. I settle for food in photo for my dinner. I feel really full and could not take anymore food right after. I am so blessed. Thank you God for the food! I wish all people in the world to have bless meal and good life !

How bad am I to loose my weight? Very desperate! Anything that I have not done to loose weight ? I did : - Yoga - Pilattes - Dancing - Aerobic - Gym exercise - Starve myself - Don't eat rice for 3 months - Diet pills - Detox Many more to list down. Result '0'! Why?? I believe I am not persistence enough. I wish to loose weight at least 3kg during this fasting month. Last year I loose 4 kg during fasting month but gain another 5kg right after normal month. ahahaha... yeah! Tell me about it! I bet many of you face the same problem as well right???

I asked my colleague just now... Me : Do you think today will be another horrible traffic during rush hour this evening? Colleague : ahahahaha... you think you the only one want to go back??? dream on.... Me : (big sigh..) They are suppose to stay at hometown to celebrate breaking fasting with their old folk at home town. Colleague : You are at which era? Now people celebrate ramadhan at hotel buffet... Thinking about that.... People nowadays misunderstand the concept of ramadhan. We don't eat, don't drink,don't do harmful thing to others,don't see bad thing and everything about doing good thing. We trained our-self to feel like poor people or less fortunate feel. Be thankful to what we have right now. I noticed every year our people here in Malaysia being greedy and wasteful for food especially during this Ramadhan month. We spends a lot too. More clothing, more food, more this and that. Colleague : Since you said new office hours are 8:30am - 5:30pm... Ca

   The other day when I wrote about Bad Boss , I received messages from the bosses on why not I write on Good Bosses too. OK ok... I will. We have good and bad like we have Ying and Yang for everything around us. Bad Boss - We hate them and we cursed them too! - We have no respect towards them at all. - We dare not step on them Good Boss - We love them! - We praised them and we respect them. - Sometimes we step on the head too :) There is Pros & Cons to be good boss.  Good Boss ..... 1. They listened 2. The don't do finger pointing 3. They be your mentor 4. Good communication skills and communicate down the information. 5. High morale 6. Aware and observant 7. Good in recognition and value the employee. 8. Very understanding 9. Roll up the sleeves to go down to the field. They know how the process for every work done. 10. Resourceful and always thinking outside the box to solve problems. All bosses.... Happy???

I my previous entry I wrote on 'How to survive difficult Boss'   and  office politics . Working with difficult boss is one of the hardest challenge in work life. Face it! you may love your job but if you hate your boss .... how are you going to continue working??? You won't stay long there... again I repeat this phrase - 'People quit the boss not the job or company'. Find out your boss type or which type of boss , are you???? The Dictator - Their leadership style is authoritative style but open for input and they prefer direct communication style. - they know everything and expect everything to be done on his way. Whoa!!! I worked with one before. Horrible! The Abuser - get ready to be cursed and be hurt. - They are basically is a toxic person. If you kind of sensitive person you may end up your day miserably and in tears.huhuhuhuhuh...so sad!!! The Idiot - ah! this type no nothing about what they are doing. They be your boss because they are luckier

This morning I was in heavy traffic for almost 4 hours. At one point I feel hopeless and almost give up to reach office. I wish I could see the twin tower in front  of me but to my disappointment I can only see the same car behind for the whole time. I was like uhuhuhuhuh... I want cooooffffeeeee... I want my bread!!!! I want to go toilet my bladder is going to explode soooooonnnn.... My feeling at that point....almost the reverse of orgasm... huhuhuhu Talking about my ridiculous happinest which lead to psychonest in me. Everyday, I will try to keep myself happy and live my life positively. On the road - I will feel happy if I can use my usual lane. While I am driving - hitz.fm air my favourite song Breakfast - my coffee according to my taste. - toast bread is perfectly toasted. Work - I manage to solve problem for people. At night - watch my favourite program and laugh happily Shopping - I get 50% discount for item I like I can smile the whole day for

My friends message me via FB last night and the message read like this, " Woit! woman you too free ar??? Update your blog many times in a day??? Thought you always a busy woman??? Please explain to me you over free timeeeeee!!!! " Big LOL first - not that I am too free but most of the post done the day before and most of post are schedule but yesterday one are totally screwed up case and I wrongly entered the time. Here I am no more stock in hand to published :( Chatting to one of ex colleague last night and she finally found herself new job. Whoa! finally you will be out of that place. To cut the story short my previous boss is the most difficult boss to please. People in the industry who see me survive with him for almost 3 and half year, respect my survival like I am a GODDESS! hahaha ...bragging again! Remember my previous entry? Don't talk negative about your previous employer. I would like to add to that. " We could learn from their mistake and turn the n

Grasshopper is name given to this job hopper. Looking to my resume history, Big YES! I am one of the Grasshopper. big LOL! I have my own reason to change my job most of the time and it is among few of the listed below. Do you know that most of job hopper is only thinking about me me me??? Well, who is not? If you not thinking about you, then who will think about you??? hahaha... it is always about me me me me... right??? Reason for job hopper : Boring with current place Not enough enhancement opportunities See no future for growth ( I guess similar to above) Hate the boss (most of us did) no contribution recognition no reward on contribution feel devalued current employer not big enough no more challenge loose trust towards company employer is unethical don't paid enough money cannot get along with co worker (loner) workplace environment is not good current employer not fit them What is your reason for job hopping???? Feel free to add in , if not listed here

Last Week traffic to my blog Traffic to my blog last month... yeah I know nothing to brag about with just only 359 visitors . Others like redmummy.com receive million. Anyway, I kind of happy people in other part of the world know of my existence on earth even though I am not in Forbes Magazines or famous like Paris Hilton.