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Again horrible traffic at day 2 - fasting month. I can't whining about this. I need to feel bless don't need to be a tuna or sardine in the bus or train to work. Everything at my free time, I can opt not to drive out but remain in office until traffic get better. But my choice is to drive out and beat the traffic jam like others. Reached home with teribble impatience mood of mine..... :( Not appetite to eat. Don't even have mood to bake my frozen garlic bread. Photo above is my dinner after 15 1/2 hours starving.:) * bowl of strawberries * yakult * dates * snickers bar Luxury dinner... hahaha....I still consider myself a bless humble woman.:) Good night my lovely world!!!!

Managing up! It sounds like we need to be a sucker? Manipulating your Boss? Nay!!!! That is not what it mean..... I survived few difficult bosses and now still surviving of their mental tortured! ahahaha ... just kidding!!! not that bad. For me managing Bosses or managing up , is very challenging task. Too kind to good is too boring for me to work with them. hahahaha... yeah! another psycho statement from me. To me Managing up is more win win situation and benefit to both parties. Most important tips to managing up : 1. Understand you Boss's preferences 2. Be honest and trustworthy (don't be a CNN) 3. Understand boss thoughts and agenda (there is always a reason behind his instruction. If don't know their objective...ASK!) 4. Loyal and committed 5.always come out with solutions instead of create problems 6.Don't give your boss surprises(not funny, OK!!!) 7.Find out your boss weaknesses 8. Know your boss dislike (eg. he hate late comers or hate disorganiz

This morning woke up early. I am still in the mood lazy to cook or even eat anything. I lost my appetite. Open up my food stock cupboard, grab one can of nescafe (yeah! to the extend I am lazy to even boil water for hot drink) and then heading to my fridge for my iranian dates I bought from mercato last Saturday. Yup! thats it.... with hope this will last until another 15 1/2 hours. Friends wrote a message and said ber iftihar??? Shamed on me!!!! Ah! my religious knowledge is little. I don't know what she meant. I was scratching my head. I will google that word later for meaning.

My 1st Day Fasting , I break my fast with Dates,Apricot, Corn and Yakult. I thought of eating Maggi Curry with mushroom but suddenly feel lazy to cook. I am lazy to stop by the near by restaurant for more decent meal. I settle for food in photo for my dinner. I feel really full and could not take anymore food right after. I am so blessed. Thank you God for the food! I wish all people in the world to have bless meal and good life !

How bad am I to loose my weight? Very desperate! Anything that I have not done to loose weight ? I did : - Yoga - Pilattes - Dancing - Aerobic - Gym exercise - Starve myself - Don't eat rice for 3 months - Diet pills - Detox Many more to list down. Result '0'! Why?? I believe I am not persistence enough. I wish to loose weight at least 3kg during this fasting month. Last year I loose 4 kg during fasting month but gain another 5kg right after normal month. ahahaha... yeah! Tell me about it! I bet many of you face the same problem as well right???

I asked my colleague just now... Me : Do you think today will be another horrible traffic during rush hour this evening? Colleague : ahahahaha... you think you the only one want to go back??? dream on.... Me : (big sigh..) They are suppose to stay at hometown to celebrate breaking fasting with their old folk at home town. Colleague : You are at which era? Now people celebrate ramadhan at hotel buffet... Thinking about that.... People nowadays misunderstand the concept of ramadhan. We don't eat, don't drink,don't do harmful thing to others,don't see bad thing and everything about doing good thing. We trained our-self to feel like poor people or less fortunate feel. Be thankful to what we have right now. I noticed every year our people here in Malaysia being greedy and wasteful for food especially during this Ramadhan month. We spends a lot too. More clothing, more food, more this and that. Colleague : Since you said new office hours are 8:30am - 5:30pm... Ca

   The other day when I wrote about Bad Boss , I received messages from the bosses on why not I write on Good Bosses too. OK ok... I will. We have good and bad like we have Ying and Yang for everything around us. Bad Boss - We hate them and we cursed them too! - We have no respect towards them at all. - We dare not step on them Good Boss - We love them! - We praised them and we respect them. - Sometimes we step on the head too :) There is Pros & Cons to be good boss.  Good Boss ..... 1. They listened 2. The don't do finger pointing 3. They be your mentor 4. Good communication skills and communicate down the information. 5. High morale 6. Aware and observant 7. Good in recognition and value the employee. 8. Very understanding 9. Roll up the sleeves to go down to the field. They know how the process for every work done. 10. Resourceful and always thinking outside the box to solve problems. All bosses.... Happy???