1. Whoaaaa!!! you look fat now???
How I feel? Of course! I am upset and hurt too.
As I look awful to your eyes....this yours truly feel zillion awful to her heavy look. My dreams to age gracefully and getting heavier DEFINITELY not part of my plan.
Do you really stay at one company for more than 4 years??? Congratulation!!! Thats mean your company treat you well or you are just that type who are afraid to get out from your comfort zones.
Ehem..ehem...even my parent gave up asking me this question. Here I go around to explain my self over and over again. I am to the point don't feel like meeting people who use to know me. isk isk isk..can't beat them...just STAY AWAY from them. I need to protect my feelings!
I know this may sound rude and bitter but I hold up my response to my heart and only spilled it out once.
Whats in my heart when people shoot me this question?
If you are a man : I feel like saying this, I am still waiting for your proposal. Why don't you marry me?
(I end up blurted this out to my ex Boss. He end up speechless and taken a back.Goshhh!!! did I just gone too far??? End the conversation with loud and awkward laugh...WTH!!!)
If you are a married woman : I feel like saying this, is married life brings you wholesome happiness to yourself? This smile of yours....is it fake smile.
If you are a single woman : I feel like saying this , tsk tsk tsk...look who is talking. Shall I brings you the mirror?
So what? If you are single and not married. Do you think finding a life partner is like trial and error situation? To me as long as I can earn and live my life like I do know, I am more than happy to continue this kind of life. Nobody can vouch for a perfect partner! I am not that type to take the risk.
Just don't ask if you not going to take responsibility. Why? I am HURT! Why? It just HAPPEN...