Monday, February 27, 2017

6 Signs People Are Just Seeking Attention

Recently , I read about this popular public figure who criticized some Boy Band and end up being trolled by most kpop fans. What amaze me is the way she response to all bad comments and threats to her. She is GOOD! Really SUPER GOOD in handling the troll one by one! SALUTE her mentally strong pesona! I would suicide already if I were her.

To me if you are being a public figure or someone well known , you need to earn a respect than requested for it. But some people feel insecure and deal with it by seeking attention from others. There is signs for those who are seeking attention. Some are harmful to others but some maybe just a pass through sign.

1. Trouble Makers

They will start to comments and stir up trouble. They will you by all means sarcasm even when they meant to offer praise and admiration to something noteworthy.

2. Glamorous Life

They always portray their lives as fabulous and glamorous. You can ask a simple question which requires a simple answer but being attention seeker the reply will be elaborated as if they dine with the Queen and King.

3. Craving for Lime Light at Social Gathering

Something not right if the party ended without noticing their presence.

4. Complaint about almost everyone

Nothing seems to be right in their eyes. They always craving for everyone to be on their side. They always a Drama Queen or King who will use their side of story to drag people to agree with them.

5. Craving for Compliment

They are readily pretty or classy but yet being attention seekers the need reaffirmation and reassurance to that.

6. Their problems is everyone's problem

They will intentionally flaunt their problems to everyone. They just want to share it with them and let others be part of it!

Attention seeker lives are never dull. They will create something to get attention again if their lives getting low and un-notice. If you have people around you who are craving for attention, try to be meticulous with this person. They can eaten up all time and energy just to get your attention focus to them. At the end of the day , you don't want that feeling to bite your lips to bleed just to get away from them. You can't ignore them but start setting some strong boundaries with them.

Be a good online blogger rather than attention seeker. At least live your life peacefully. Life is like a 'boomerang'. You throw that boomerang and it will turn back to you at no time without you realize it hit your nose if you don't catch it properly.

We all have attention seekers syndrome in us. You can laugh about it and says you have met many of the above kind. If you are blogger or claimed yourself social media influencer, without we realise, we are somehow one of them. Maybe in less dramatic way. Being a blogger or social influencer is all about seeking attention. As long as it does not harm others, then its alright! Just live your life happily. Thats all!

pssssstttt : I can be attention seekers too but always failed to get attention. WTH!

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