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Again horrible traffic at day 2 - fasting month. I can't whining about this. I need to feel bless don't need to be a tuna or sardine in the bus or train to work. Everything at my free time, I can opt not to drive out but remain in office until traffic get better. But my choice is to drive out and beat the traffic jam like others. Reached home with teribble impatience mood of mine..... :( Not appetite to eat. Don't even have mood to bake my frozen garlic bread. Photo above is my dinner after 15 1/2 hours starving.:) * bowl of strawberries * yakult * dates * snickers bar Luxury dinner... hahaha....I still consider myself a bless humble woman.:) Good night my lovely world!!!!

Managing up! It sounds like we need to be a sucker? Manipulating your Boss? Nay!!!! That is not what it mean..... I survived few difficult bosses and now still surviving of their mental tortured! ahahaha ... just kidding!!! not that bad. For me managing Bosses or managing up , is very challenging task. Too kind to good is too boring for me to work with them. hahahaha... yeah! another psycho statement from me. To me Managing up is more win win situation and benefit to both parties. Most important tips to managing up : 1. Understand you Boss's preferences 2. Be honest and trustworthy (don't be a CNN) 3. Understand boss thoughts and agenda (there is always a reason behind his instruction. If don't know their objective...ASK!) 4. Loyal and committed 5.always come out with solutions instead of create problems 6.Don't give your boss surprises(not funny, OK!!!) 7.Find out your boss weaknesses 8. Know your boss dislike (eg. he hate late comers or hate disorganiz

This morning woke up early. I am still in the mood lazy to cook or even eat anything. I lost my appetite. Open up my food stock cupboard, grab one can of nescafe (yeah! to the extend I am lazy to even boil water for hot drink) and then heading to my fridge for my iranian dates I bought from mercato last Saturday. Yup! thats it.... with hope this will last until another 15 1/2 hours. Friends wrote a message and said ber iftihar??? Shamed on me!!!! Ah! my religious knowledge is little. I don't know what she meant. I was scratching my head. I will google that word later for meaning.

My 1st Day Fasting , I break my fast with Dates,Apricot, Corn and Yakult. I thought of eating Maggi Curry with mushroom but suddenly feel lazy to cook. I am lazy to stop by the near by restaurant for more decent meal. I settle for food in photo for my dinner. I feel really full and could not take anymore food right after. I am so blessed. Thank you God for the food! I wish all people in the world to have bless meal and good life !

How bad am I to loose my weight? Very desperate! Anything that I have not done to loose weight ? I did : - Yoga - Pilattes - Dancing - Aerobic - Gym exercise - Starve myself - Don't eat rice for 3 months - Diet pills - Detox Many more to list down. Result '0'! Why?? I believe I am not persistence enough. I wish to loose weight at least 3kg during this fasting month. Last year I loose 4 kg during fasting month but gain another 5kg right after normal month. ahahaha... yeah! Tell me about it! I bet many of you face the same problem as well right???

I asked my colleague just now... Me : Do you think today will be another horrible traffic during rush hour this evening? Colleague : ahahahaha... you think you the only one want to go back??? dream on.... Me : (big sigh..) They are suppose to stay at hometown to celebrate breaking fasting with their old folk at home town. Colleague : You are at which era? Now people celebrate ramadhan at hotel buffet... Thinking about that.... People nowadays misunderstand the concept of ramadhan. We don't eat, don't drink,don't do harmful thing to others,don't see bad thing and everything about doing good thing. We trained our-self to feel like poor people or less fortunate feel. Be thankful to what we have right now. I noticed every year our people here in Malaysia being greedy and wasteful for food especially during this Ramadhan month. We spends a lot too. More clothing, more food, more this and that. Colleague : Since you said new office hours are 8:30am - 5:30pm... Ca

   The other day when I wrote about Bad Boss , I received messages from the bosses on why not I write on Good Bosses too. OK ok... I will. We have good and bad like we have Ying and Yang for everything around us. Bad Boss - We hate them and we cursed them too! - We have no respect towards them at all. - We dare not step on them Good Boss - We love them! - We praised them and we respect them. - Sometimes we step on the head too :) There is Pros & Cons to be good boss.  Good Boss ..... 1. They listened 2. The don't do finger pointing 3. They be your mentor 4. Good communication skills and communicate down the information. 5. High morale 6. Aware and observant 7. Good in recognition and value the employee. 8. Very understanding 9. Roll up the sleeves to go down to the field. They know how the process for every work done. 10. Resourceful and always thinking outside the box to solve problems. All bosses.... Happy???

I my previous entry I wrote on 'How to survive difficult Boss'   and  office politics . Working with difficult boss is one of the hardest challenge in work life. Face it! you may love your job but if you hate your boss .... how are you going to continue working??? You won't stay long there... again I repeat this phrase - 'People quit the boss not the job or company'. Find out your boss type or which type of boss , are you???? The Dictator - Their leadership style is authoritative style but open for input and they prefer direct communication style. - they know everything and expect everything to be done on his way. Whoa!!! I worked with one before. Horrible! The Abuser - get ready to be cursed and be hurt. - They are basically is a toxic person. If you kind of sensitive person you may end up your day miserably and in tears.huhuhuhuhuh...so sad!!! The Idiot - ah! this type no nothing about what they are doing. They be your boss because they are luckier

This morning I was in heavy traffic for almost 4 hours. At one point I feel hopeless and almost give up to reach office. I wish I could see the twin tower in front  of me but to my disappointment I can only see the same car behind for the whole time. I was like uhuhuhuhuh... I want cooooffffeeeee... I want my bread!!!! I want to go toilet my bladder is going to explode soooooonnnn.... My feeling at that point....almost the reverse of orgasm... huhuhuhu Talking about my ridiculous happinest which lead to psychonest in me. Everyday, I will try to keep myself happy and live my life positively. On the road - I will feel happy if I can use my usual lane. While I am driving - hitz.fm air my favourite song Breakfast - my coffee according to my taste. - toast bread is perfectly toasted. Work - I manage to solve problem for people. At night - watch my favourite program and laugh happily Shopping - I get 50% discount for item I like I can smile the whole day for

My friends message me via FB last night and the message read like this, " Woit! woman you too free ar??? Update your blog many times in a day??? Thought you always a busy woman??? Please explain to me you over free timeeeeee!!!! " Big LOL first - not that I am too free but most of the post done the day before and most of post are schedule but yesterday one are totally screwed up case and I wrongly entered the time. Here I am no more stock in hand to published :( Chatting to one of ex colleague last night and she finally found herself new job. Whoa! finally you will be out of that place. To cut the story short my previous boss is the most difficult boss to please. People in the industry who see me survive with him for almost 3 and half year, respect my survival like I am a GODDESS! hahaha ...bragging again! Remember my previous entry? Don't talk negative about your previous employer. I would like to add to that. " We could learn from their mistake and turn the n

Grasshopper is name given to this job hopper. Looking to my resume history, Big YES! I am one of the Grasshopper. big LOL! I have my own reason to change my job most of the time and it is among few of the listed below. Do you know that most of job hopper is only thinking about me me me??? Well, who is not? If you not thinking about you, then who will think about you??? hahaha... it is always about me me me me... right??? Reason for job hopper : Boring with current place Not enough enhancement opportunities See no future for growth ( I guess similar to above) Hate the boss (most of us did) no contribution recognition no reward on contribution feel devalued current employer not big enough no more challenge loose trust towards company employer is unethical don't paid enough money cannot get along with co worker (loner) workplace environment is not good current employer not fit them What is your reason for job hopping???? Feel free to add in , if not listed here

Last Week traffic to my blog Traffic to my blog last month... yeah I know nothing to brag about with just only 359 visitors . Others like redmummy.com receive million. Anyway, I kind of happy people in other part of the world know of my existence on earth even though I am not in Forbes Magazines or famous like Paris Hilton.

Whoa!!!! not bad huh? Traffic for my blog came from all over the world. This is the snapshot from nuffnang for yesterday traffic to my blog. Fantastic! Even Korea? Do you think Lee Min Ho is reading my diary??? Yeah! in my sweetest dream right???

Many of us spend time complaint about our work during lunch break or happy hours time. Its not wrong if it is positive bitching. As long as don't harm other, you could release your stress by talking about it. Do you know most of us thought we are the most unluckiest person? Facing the tough life and many more problems in life and work and relationship? Yesterday after the lunch break , my colleague and I took the lift up to our office. In the life there is 4 more other ladies. There was this lady complaint to another lady about one of other colleague. I guess she is bitching about her supervisor . After our lift reached to our office floor while walking towards our office I turn to my friend and told her about she is not the only one having the 'toughest life'. Many others on the same boat and may be they are in the worst boat and waiting to sink or sinking by now. Imagine this : * when you are getting scold by your boss......    somewhere out there at other

Who says I don't like discount? I am one of those discount freak who always on the look out for great bargain. We don't need to spend much if we have chance to get good deal right? I was trying hard to loose weight lately. Exercise and try my best to watch my food intake and so on. Not even 100 gm loose on my body fat. Yeah! it was reverse effect indeed. Last week when I weight myself I gain extra 1kg.Aiyooo!!!!! When I was adoring my blog one day and the ad from milk deal came appear in my blog for slimming deal. Without hesitation I quickly sign up for milkdeal.com. Deal for the day that caught my eye is RM38 instead of RM940 for E - Intense Full Body Treatment + 1 Tummy Flat Treatment (96% off) Yeah! bought it for RM38. Received the voucher instantly after I paid and printed. Now my problem to use it. Noted on the expiry date on Sep 2011. mmmmm... I don't know whether I could go there with strong mindset without getting piss off with those desperate s

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This morning I woke up with feeling the pain on my right feet bunion area. Intolerable painful bone!!!! Hurting like you are dying... I look at my alarm clock beside my bed, it was 4.30am. Uh! here I am lying on my bed with painful feet. I was at office very early this morning. Decided to have thosai with dhal for breakfast. Eat a little and my appetite totally gone. I just can't eat it all. Last night my only dinner was mushroom soup and this went down to my toilet bowl. My system a bit out this week. Yesterday lunch I was telling my colleague lets go to different food place since next week I can't join her for lunch due to fasting month. Yesterday menu was Briyani Rice from Wisma Central. Then we visited temple nearby for Chinese Red Bean and Peanut pancake for dessert. All of them went to the toilet bowl . Here goes my luxury lunch.I just feel headache and what I ate just wanna go out! Am I sick??? My system starting to malfunction again? Ah! I need to change

For those who just started work, Welcome to adulthood! Earn some cash , be committed and take responsible. Working life is not as easy as student life. But hey student life is not easy too! Well trust me working life is a lot tougher. Not only all about work you need to concern and be prepared for office politic. Say what? Politic? I am not working in parliament or white house or blue house. Just decent job want to earn cash then live. Hahahaha... don't be so naive. There are people around us when we are working even in animal community they have politic. Office politic can make you loose you job and can make you climb up higher. Well it depends how smart you are in playing this game. Yup! I call this office game instead of office politic. How to make sure you are playing smart game in office? 1. Be focus on circle of imfluence Bitching and complaining is a norm in office world! Gossipping can be the release to your stress. When somebody gossipping about you and tr

Hokkaido Mille Crepe Cake - I ate yesterday at Sg Wang 3rd Floor...mmm yummy!!! love it!  My favourite Koay Teow Mee Penang Fried from Food Republic Pavillion... like it! Previous weeks indulgence.... yeah! I was so lazy to upload photos once upon a time.... onde onde from Mid Valley  and below my others foodies photos...   Thai Reastaurant dessert from Mid Valley... refreshing!  Thai style fried mee  Pineapples fried rice  Heavy duty breakfast... Malaysian style!!! My favourite snack from Shillin Taiwan Street counter... Plum Sweet Potato... yummy God Bless me!!!! Thank you! I am still alive comfortably , healthy with good food and love by people around. Thank you God for giving me this opportunity! Love you! I will cherrish this moment and will always remember...

I am so happy today is Friday! Weird thing I received 2 unexpected visitors  this morning but I manage it well although I don't wish to see them. Can't wait for 6.00pm but when I went out from car park just now. Oh hell!!!! deadlocked every where and I no where out.  Horrible! Thought of going to KLCC just to wait jam subside but it is impossible. and that shontelle song keep coming to my head singing.... NO WAY NO WAY NO WAY... arrrggghhh!!! Shontelle song don't have that arrrggghhh sound ...ehehehe.. Back to office parking and up to my office. My habit could not relax at all .... when I am in office.. I start working!!!! huhuhuhuh force to work la... Stupid traffic... trouble people..everybody will be thinking the same like me too Why these people buy car hor??? Can't take public transport meh??? Me?? I have excuse my place not convenient to public transport la... My excuse??? I think everybody have the same thoughts and that is why its jam every