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I THINK I AM IN THE WRONG BUSINESS

Late June this year, I met up with this old man who I look up the most.
He text me for coffee.
Its not like I look up at him because of everything positive about him.
I look up at him because I learn a lot from him to compare with other people I had met!

Among of his words makes me remember until now,

" If you want to be stand out, always swim against the current "
" Other problems are our opportunity "
" If you are expecting different result, try other method to solve you problems "
" Its all about system"

This is just part of what I am believing....
Yeah! I once met this psychologist and when I told her about him , she said I was 'brain washed'!
Hahahaha...yeah! I could say that I am 80% agreed with her!

Back to old man, he told me in our recent meet up that he think he is in the wrong business.

My response to him, was like....

"Hello!!!!! you made millions of ringgit out of this business and look what you are having now compare to when we just started.....duh????"
"How could it be you in the wrong business?"
"Don't all business is all about earning money???"

In my heart....
People like me worries mad about earn for living and yet people like him earns and complaint???
Is this fair???
Ya ya...at least my heart screaming for some senses.

Then he told me his problems....
He told me how hard it is to train people and nobody want to be his successor!

ahhhhh!!! I am not surprise....he is still having the same problem ever since I left him?
He is successful in earning money but he is still a failure in building up his own team.
I could say, during my time with him is the glorious time for him since I was there to like a "Sponge Bob" absorbing his long winded repeat lecture session.  After I left his team collapse and was all over the place.

A leader with no follower???
Can you call yourself a leader then?

BIG SIGH!!!!
I told him, life is not about just working.
It is important to earn and live !
We don't live to just earn!
We also need to live our life too!
Be happy too!
Does this make sense???

If you are expecting to train people to be just another YOU....then forget it we are not in cloning business!
We are training people!
People with feeling.
People with different character, different needs, different background,different ambition!

Life is not just about working and being a perfectionist!
Life is about living the life happily.

Yes we need money to be happy but money isn't everything!

Look at you, you are with money but do you have people around you???
No!
Are you happy???
No!

So balance up!

Do you think he is in the wrong business like what he thinks he is???
To me, he is not in the wrong business.
He just need to ease himself and live a balance life.
When people around him sees this, I believe he don't need to try hard to train others.

This business is perfect for him!
He just need to learn how to work and play !

He told me he changed!
To me....he is still the same old man I met in year 2006.

Since he earns enough....if I were him, I will just retire and live my life the way I wants it to be.
Well...in my case I will travel around the world and blog about my experience and share it to the world!

At least that is how I dreams my life to be.

But in his case...I guess all he wants to do in his life is work and work and solve problems and be in tough situations all the time???? Perhaps???
At least that is how I remember him when I was working with him. 

He is still the same every time meet up with him the preaching from him last for more than 4 hours.
Oh myyyyyyyy...he still the same old man who I used to know.
Seriously my tail bone hurt for sitting too long and my bladder harden due to holding up from toilet excuse.
Yeah yeah...I am so polite to interrupt the preach.
Give the old man a break.
Maybe no other people will lend ears like I did.

Here I am bitching a lil bit about him behind his back.
So called polite of me huh?
I am not an angel...I am just a human like you people out there!

I am no Saint  and not Evil too!

Forgive me God!

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